Go through " 5 12 " Every minute behind the earthquake, in pay close attention to the fact disaster area every point of rescue work develop we. Everybody cares about the disaster area, cares about the enthusiasm of the compatriot of disaster area, run high with continuation of the disaster.
When the survivor with lighter condition of an injury of disaster area, transfer to the other cities and receive treatment one after another, I learn too, a lot of hospitals in our city accept the wounded of a lot of disaster areas for medical treatment from newspaper. Early in the morning, I went to the supermarket to buy snacks, toy,etc. that a lot of children ate specially yesterday, go to the hospital to visit the children from disaster area.
Getting to the hospital, I find the enthusiastic citizens like me are not a few. In the ward corridor, often hear the doctor exhort enthusiastic citizens not to stay in the ward for a long time, so as not to influence patients to have a rest. When I plan to come into a ward, see that there is an enthusiastic aunt, make detailed inquiries to the child on the sick bed: "When the earthquake, where are you? " , "afraid? " Wait a moment. But obviously have a kind of guard in the child's expression in one's eyes, the look is quite tired out. The present piled to the bedside, seem very indifferent too.
Everything being seen, totally exceed the expectation of me. What happened to on earth? Originally, the enthusiastic citizens very go to the hospital to visit, condole the wounded spontaneously every day. Everybody asks the wounded family's situation, experience,etc. buried, has caused the unnecessary psychology to a lot of wounded to perplex in regular meeting. As the doctor's friend reminds me, you had better not go to alarm the wounded recently, has let them have a good rest, return to normal life gradually.
I have accepted the friend's suggestion, ask her to divide the present to the wounded. In the evening, I had no intention of seeing a relevant model: <
Progress and tender feeling of human nature of society, let psychological consultation of masses suffering from disaster behind the calamity become a warm scenery behind the heavy earthquake. We see, the numerous survivors rescued, are accepting the specialized psychotherapy rapidly. A lot of love personages, it is the true feelings that are revealed even more, condole and visit the sick and wounded one after another. Hardly realize, sometimes, kind will do " bad thing " too ,Even bring to masses suffering from disaster " The secondary disaster " .
It is reported that, there is a little lovely girl, often have zealots to comfort warmly after being rescued in hospital, play 10 people in half an hour to visit her, nearly " force and explode the ward " . Will come down in a few days, the expression of the little girl is still dull, stupefied, but not been " excessively cared about " with other two of the ward Child,open already psychological consultation and self-regulation, soul, be lasted lively natural instincts naughty. The psychological doctor says, are " excessively cared about " Little for girl,and the less many in the peoples of she in comfort when because visiting, she psychological " protect by membrane " It is the thicker.
The one that can be understood is, the original idea of a lot persons who visit is not to injure those masses suffering from disaster again absolutely, they think go comfort, visit, it is one psychological consolation, soul that cure the wound too certainly. But after the soul-stirring calamity, frequently looking about as a swarm of bees, sometimes act on and often run counter to desire, turn out contrary to one's wishes, have influenced their rest at first, secondly, a sentence of words accidentally sometimes, may reveal the scar that the wounded heals for the first time again. For example, that is buried in the ruins and sung wait for the pupil 9 years old who is rescued, because " excessively cares about " of media and hot rookie ,Mood is out of control, make a scene in the hospital.
Many psychologists appeal for loudly too: Control the interview and caring of rescued personnel, don't aggravate party's psychological burden.
The community of Yeah Chongqing leaves rosy clouds and flutters
Don't go to take off survivor's scar at heart
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