Don't forget " Lose " Parents

Don't forget " Lose " Parents
Scientific and technological observer

Liu Xia

By May 25, there are 5498 orphan and children not finding parents temporarily in the earthquake-stricken area of Sichuan, though the civil affairs department emphasizes repeatedly, the procedure which adopts the orphan has not launched formally yet, but this has not hindered people to apply for and adopt the earthquake orphan's enthusiasm at all, the love is welled up from each side like tidewater. The media reports, by May 27, more than 20,000 families or personal expression has adopted the earthquake orphan's will already.
" parents disobey between infancy " ,It really makes people surprised to lose parents bitterly when being young, the society should care about more the earthquake orphan too, smooth, good life that years are quiet of letting them live this life.

However, it last that block sight it is at ours at the time of ruins which earthquake wreak havoc, we except seeing earthquake orphan is too lonely to have in accordance with figure,be be be be be be meanwhile, it is lose by the faces which parentses mourn sorrowfully of child to see tooededdeddeddedded. Wen's Sichuan earthquake takes place in class period of afternoon, the proportion is relatively high that children die in an accident. In the rural area, the adult generally works in the field when the earthquake, the chance of surviving is heavier. So more common situation in Wen Sichuan earthquake-stricken area may be that the parents lose children.

Then, how to comfort and help these parents who lose the child? How to whisk the deep sorrow on their face off? This needs joint efforts of government and the society.

From the viewpoint of government, how many parents lose children should confirm having at first, then " suit the remedy to the case " . As to the thing that some parents that can't bear, on one hand, can set up the birth control compensation mechanism after a calamity, encourage them to adopt and lose parents' orphan in the earthquake, everybody's habits and customs are similar to background, have the same unfortunate experience, contribute to crossing the difficulty altogether. This needs the government to devote more efforts to replenishing to such a family, guarantee orphans can receive better education. But at the same time, civil affairs department should strengthen, follow, pay a return visit, prevent from among the such kinsfolks influencing each other, fall into the sad one " The trap " China is unable to free oneself, once find the symptom, try every possible means to solve at once.

Secondly, I hope too the children in all parts of the country admit that shake " lose " in the manor Parents, by caring about these parents wholeheartedly, although can't be often attended upon and pleased under the knee, should find time to have a look more. In the traditional society of China, " raises sons to support one in one's old age " It is most parents' idea, claim " lose " Parents' children can adopt and help the form raised too, provide more comfort for them from material and spirit, let them lose and does not lose the love, enjoy the warmth of the family.




Don't forget " Lose " Parents