Don't be a mark " Cold " Child

Don't be a mark " Cold " Child
The end-of-term exam of the middle and primary schools was over last week this term, a lot of students and a face were relaxed, but one primary school of central urban district reads to Xiao Tian of grade three some have a worried look, "mother does not say if the examination is taken an exam of well, not only can't play on winter vacation, but also even money given to children as a lunar New year gift is a problem. " Some education experts say, it is one-sided for the mark but " cold " that parents do not need Child,fruit by the ones rational without being had attitude about examination.

Only mete out rewards and punishments inadvisably in mark theory

It is reported, regard mark as it to the only basis that the child metes out rewards and punishments, more general in parents at present. Parents whose surname is Shen say one: "Fight outside hard by oneself, only for the child. Make him first-class in the multi-disciplinary tutorial class on two-day weekend, just want him to behave on the score to some extent, it is based on mark to mete out rewards and punishments, have nothing to criticize. "

Vice President of Tongji University experimental school Niu Ying thinks, no doubt a kind of reflection student knows " scale " of the situation for marks of the examination ,But not all " The graduated cup " .

The achievement can't reflect everything

" this examination of mine is certainly good, can become the ten-thousand yuan income family, this is an oral contract which parents make with me before examination " ,A Junior Two boy says to the deskmate with joy, but this deskmate responds and says helplessly: "I am not so lucky, I feel that do in the test unsatisfactorily this time, may be deducted with nothing left by parents, can not be well on even the Spring Festival. " The such correctly one draws a clear-cut line between reward and punishment, some teachers are defended against an injustice. Mr. Jiang that one taught Chinese says: "The marks of the examination can't reflect everything. It is too heavy and punishing to reward overweightly, is all unfavorable to students' growth. "

Look at the marks of the examination dialectically

"After the examination is taken an exam of, her only sees marks if I am most disgusted with mother, so long as not within her idea, it is the achievement not good. She does not know many thing that is worth probing into of mark at all. " Xiao Zhou says that one is who has in the class physical ace's title.

Should prosperous issues of headmaster of weiqi school JiQin Wu think parents treat children learn, especially marks of the examination, there should be dialectical attitudes.

It is pointed out that the expert headmaster, seven treasure bright strong headmaster's the Wu 'ses of Shanghai are beautiful, regardless of student's marks of the examination, it take parents by usual mind in the face of,achievement is a fine one getting " wild with joy more " ,Not very ideal too no " Dreary" ,In term of caring about, cherishing " Give making every effort " . Staff reporter Su Jun


Don't be a mark " Cold " Child