12:16 on February 16, 2012
The situation that will let the export-oriented one be excited, it was the introversive one that fears, while stimulating, this kind of scene often contains the danger too. The export-oriented one pursues the result, but the excited sense will let them fade from memory the warning around, the introversive one will be thoughtful instead.
People often think the introversive person is very shy, but introversive with shy can not totally draw first-class number, though really there are coincident parts between the two. It is a kind of anxious mood, the inhibition of what is there are behaviors to to be shy. The shy person often fears the society makes them negatively to judge, therefore will try hard to avoid the social scene, though sometimes they want to add into it. The introversive person will avoid the social scene too, but hide from the reason to stand up - -They want to stay alone even more.
The introversive person is not rare in the society, but should understand " introversively " accurately This label means something on earth, must take some time.
A piece of statistical data reveals, about has natural instincts introversion of 30% people. And these the introversive ones, under prudent, timid appearance, the strong strength contained.
It is shy not to equal introversively
According to " Times ", people often think the introversive person is very shy, but introversive with shy can not totally draw first-class number, though really there are coincident parts between the two. It is a kind of anxious mood, the inhibition of what is there are behaviors to to be shy. The shy person often fears the society makes them negatively to judge, therefore will try hard to avoid the social activity, though sometimes they want to add into it. The introversive person will avoid the social activity too, but hide from the reason to stand up - -They want to stay alone even more.
"How troublesome social activity is not, the introversive one just thinks better to participate in less. " Child of the university of Canada MacMaste emotion chief of research office Louis and Schmitt says. Until social activity move about, getting export-oriented by unworthily move, obtain energy in crowd, can feel tiring instead while being getting introversive. American former president Bill and Clinton is a typical the export-oriented one, he draws the positive energy at double in the busy work.
Our times, seem more favorable the export-oriented one survive. Research that emerge in an endless stream point out social activity with low cholesterol already and temper the same regularly, have become the precondition of the good physique of possession. The extremely shy and introversive person is apter to be crushed by diseases such as AIDS,etc., and compared with the export-oriented person, they are easier to be depressed in front of disease. The same too while going to school, it causes teacher's more concerns to display the positive child, but the quiet child stays and leaves ignoring in the corner of the classroom.
"Traditional culture expects we become export-oriented, social persons. " English of American Northwest University expert, <
This kind of advantage of sneaking the rule and underestimating the introversive one exactly in the society. Such as at work, interpersonal relationships and interpersonal society are integrative. The introversive one utilizes the telephone number to bring all friends into interpersonal network soon, and this kind of friend-making way is often deep, beneficial. Come more compared with the export-oriented one, the introversive person seems more carefully, this means, they treat the question and give careful consideration, can make wiser choice naturally. In addition, the introversive one is good at listening attentively to - -Not when you are not that expansive talker after all, easier to listen to. This representative of characteristics, the introversive one can often act as the leader's role. As sitting quietly and centralized spirit, the introversive one can be in giving play to their specialty when stay alone for a long time.
It worthes points out to be, personality and have introversive export-oriented two sides these of people. A kind of person is known as " The middle personality person " ,In in the intermediate zone of two kinds of personalities.
It is innate to be introversive
The mask is that the introversive one is facing the means that the prejudice of common customs is being often used, a lot of people have known this kind of skill since childhood. The scientist finds, it is still export-oriented that people will become introversive, totally natural instincts make rightly. In mother's uterus, the baby will be because of imperceptibe influence, tendentiousness of growing to form the personality.
The triumphant root of Gerome of expert of developmental psychology in Harvard University has brought the experiment of a pioneer's property at this point. In 1989, triumphant root and group carried on research to 500 babies 4 months old. They put these babies in having different and amazing experiment rooms, these rooms have been covered with balloons, colored body in motion, and dipped in the swab of alcohol. Among them nearly 20% of the babies stimulate and react these strongly, they will wave the small arm while wailing; 40% of the babies are relatively a bit quieter; Other 40% of the babies are calm and crying and screaming in these two pieces of extreme the middle.
According to the conjecture of the triumphant root, those irritate the baby with obvious response to external world - -That is to say that group is known as " It is high and sensitive " Baby,it is at teenagers period will become by the ones introversive child, and " low and sensitive " Baby may become export-oriented person. After growing up in experimental subjects, the conjecture of the triumphant root has been verified.
Construct tile, seem now in the intersection of state and Karl, doctor of general hospital, Massachusetts of U.S.A., people such innate personality it inclined toes to be though no decisive, but really have mark to follow. "Baby who displays to irritating very sensitively in baby period, perhaps can not come to a bill broker or another Bill and Clinton. "
The psychologist Elaine and Arron has revealed the deep reason behind the personality for us in " extremely sensitive person " book. Mention in this book published in 1997, the introversive person was on the low side to the amazing resisting, in front of one room of balloons, they learn to keep limited energy with inhibiting behavior soon. To the introversive one, " hell " Not facing crowds, but the crowd is really a kind of stimulus. A cocktail party, once discuss collectively, will let their nerve endure the torment to the fullest extent, but the export-oriented one always enjoys this kind of stimulus.
Don't force children to become export-oriented
Prudent, depressing, even afraid, to receiving the response that the person that excessively irritates is healthier and naturaller, but this is not the personality characteristic that parents want to see on child, because of this society of our life, a height has a partiality for the bold, aggressive society. We will often see, the introversive child's parents, like forcing one's own child to become a little more lively very much. But must point out, this is a kind of wrong method.
The truth of the thing is, the introversive one behaves to the external environment more sensitively, they know they can't satisfy the expectation of the people around, and will keep others' appraisal firmly in mind on the heart. Nearly every introversive adult, scene that is criticize for because of being seem too quiet can remember early childhood. At any time, an introversive child, when the teacher gives a mark for students, also must be in inferior position. Parents want to help one's own child to incorporate the society better, there is no fault in this, but if this kind of move has been gone beyond " Help " Category,on lasting derivation and be lasted questioned. Psychologist of American University of California outstanding Belskie thinks, this kind will destroy a child to attack, "the key to the question lies in more encouraging. "
There is not strong point without meaning the introversive ones in this, in fact their advantage reflects in many aspects. Let getting export-oriented excited situation getting introversive to fear, while stimulating, this kind of scene often contains the danger too. "The export-oriented one pursues the result, but the excited sense will let them fade from memory the warning around, the introversive one will be more thoughtful instead. " Triumphant kindness is said.
It is not the only advantage of the introversive one to good at avoiding the risk. State university psychologist K in Florida of U.S.A.. Anders and Eriksson believes, while wanting to know an outstanding skill, on the premise of having no companion, it is a key to success to carry on conscious practising alone, this field of playing in sports activity, musical instrument etc. can be tenable. In a research, Eriksson is divided into three groups according to the future job purpose by the specialized students of Germany Berlin conservatory of music violin, it is that they want to become the professional player's strong intensity to consult the standard. The habit that researchers let these students keep keeping a diary, find subsequently three groups of students need to spend 50 hours to play and train every week, but perform the students of competence two groups of higher among them, like practising the violin alone even more at ordinary times.
A serious problem is day by day at present, are good at in pondering and staying alone the person of study of job is reducing sharply. Media such as preferring the E-mail, mobile phones of a lot of introversive persons, because they can bring a kind of buffer, and this kind of buffer is different to realize in the face-to-face exchange. In U.S.A., 70% of the working clan spend a busy day in the open office, they scarely have even not have private space isolated with the colleague at all. The data reveal, per person area when American employees were working was reduced greatly from 1970, from 46 square meters / person reduce to 19 square meters / person. Stressing " Cooperation " Name under,it is private die space, but in side effect to lay particular stress on team unity, totally creative extinction.
Famous people
The introversive one
Don't rare to reach the intersection of Sri Lankan and Gandhi (political leader)
Gandhi can take exercises with world where the peace improves while influencing the nationalist and striving for in whole world, but he is an introversive person all the time.
Joe guides Joe Ma (baseball star)
Guided Joe Ma and once belonged to foreign base baseball team " Attack a king " ,With the end with superstar's transient marriage between Marilyn and Monroe, already the brilliant rays have been out while retiring.
Hilary and Clinton (the American Secretary of State)
Hilary appearing in the diplomatic occasion again and again, in fact it is a comparatively introversive person.
Warren and Buffett (capital giant)
Buffett say, make, make the investment most in need of possessing moral character to have right makings, the characteristic held back, prudent in him is explaining everything.
Graceful Maughan and Singh (the Indian Premier)
Administrator, as a second country of population in whole world, this man is modest.
Bill and Gates (CEO, philanthropist)
Compared with getting along with people, he likes studying intensively the new technology even more.
The export-oriented one
Bill and Clinton (the American former president)
The owner of White House is always those export-oriented fellows, but probably will be as typical as Clinton as people.
Margaret and Thatcher (British former prime minister)
Thatcher's outgoing nature helps her to overcome the sexism, becomes the first women prime minister in Britain's history.
Steve and Jobs (innovator)
Jobs is born a businessman, will not be shy even if one that is against whole world focus one's attention upon him.
Mohammed and Ali (boxer)
He think he is boxing unique on the circle, boxing of him the picture is making a show sometimes.
Mound Gill of Winston (politician)
The mound Gill seems to have infinite energy, his capacity for liquor is abysmal too.
George and Walker and Bush (politician)
George W. Bush has reached ultimate attainment of the friendly full play of the Texas type, he loves politics for running for, but often let his supporter attacked to the neglect of the detail.
It is not shy to be introversive: But the natural instincts introversion of 30 persons contains strong strength
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