Children's current situation of staying behind to take care of

Children's current situation of staying behind to take care of things of countryside is investigated: The long-term kindred lacks and causes the personality to be unsociable and eccentric
"Parents are in the distant place, there are no parents at one's side, read nobody is in charge of, very bored on the heart, the security has no guarantee, life has not hoped. " This piece spread in the intersection of Jiangxi and jingle of countryside, reflect countryside stay behind to take care of things children's current situation from one side.

According to the All-China Women's Federation's investigation, there are children more than 50 million in all countryside that stay behind to take care of things in the whole country at present. How are the life, study, psychological state of this colony in large scale? How does the society stretch out and care about the hands to them? The reporter walked close to children staying behind to take care of things a few days ago.

1. " I miss father "

--In some countryside, " stay behind to take care of things child " Over 2/3 of proportions,it and sustain by increase. Stay behind to take care of things to a lot of children, Papa and Mama are the sound in the telephone

The village of Hunan security personnel in Ningxiang county of Shashi of provincial governor of November, is playing the light rain of Xi's patter outside the room, 7 -year-old Hunan is right to play with cousin, the grandmother prepares suppers in the kitchen. The flat certificate of merit of Hunan and a photograph of the whole family are stuck on a wall in the room, "this is Papa and Mama, and I, there are uncle, aunt, cousin and grandmother. " A small a flat a instruction of Hunan. The reporter asks: "Where did Papa and Mama go? " The little child escapes one's lips: "Work in Zhejiang! " Uncle Zhang JunSheng says, the flat parents in Hunan work as a temporary labourer in the factory of Zhejiang, come back several times every year, he follows grandmother's life from two or three years old. There is one than the cousins of young several months of his at uncle's home, two little boys are the best partner.

Small Hunan is flat to look clever and lovely, a pair of big eyes are eagle-eyed. The reporter should see the word that he wrote, it is flat that one sits down in small Hunan one has been written drawing, find and overwrite on paper of page half when showing reporter " My father " . Uncle, work as a temporary labourer outside too in the past by aunt, because healthy to come back home, do, blow, cultivate. "The younger brother sleeps with Papa and Mama every day, grandmother and I sleep. " It is flat to mutter to oneself nearby in a low voice in small Hunan. At the time of the situation that is flat for parents to work as a temporary labourer outside that the reporter inquires Hunan, it was flat to come over to say having pity on each frequently in small Hunan: "I miss father! "

Zhanhua of northern Shandong of early winter, the nip in the air invades people. Aunt sesame of 66 -year-old Yang Ai of village of family Tian of Zhanhua county of Shandong is picking up granddaughter's fairy fairy from school to go home against the cold wind. 8 -year-old fairy fairy is the students of the second grade of the first experimental school in the rich country of Zhanhua county this year. Papa and Mama work as a temporary labourer in the other places throughout the year, it has already been 5 years since efficacious fairy followed grandmother's grand-mother's grandfathers. To efficacious fairy, Papa and Mama are the sound inside the telephone: "Should listen to grandmother's grand-mother's grandfather, study hard, we try hard to find time to come back home to see you this year "In that case hear each time, will make fairy fairy glad endlessly, it's a pity over the past 5 years, Papa and Mama can not " Smoke " Appear for time.

Shandong the Zhanhua county Dongsha is little in that village 4 year old of this years clean, at kindergarten swing shift. As soon as mention Papa and Mama, embrace the grandmother tearfully young and clean. Little and clean parents have gone to Guangzhou to work as a temporary labourer for 2 years. When aunt lead her chat with the intersection of father and video through network each time, small to call " my father you get off while being clean! "

In Jiangxi workshop Daying Village in the township of Korea S. in the county of Jiangxi Province, the reporter inquires a group of babies of peasant family playing: "Do the children asking parents to work as a temporary labourer outside raise the hand? " The children present have all lifted the arm, the village director on one side says with a smile helplessly: I become, stay behind to take care of things village head soon!

Take the lead in light abundant this year 11 year old that raise the hand, study in Junior One in middle school, workshop of Korea S., father a clothing factory work as a temporary labourer in Guangdong. Since more than a year old, small to follow grandparents, stay in home all the time right away while being abundant. "I have been to Guangdong, there are many small cars there, have very high buildings, have the one more delicious and more interesting. " Talk about Dongguan of Guangdong Province, it is small and abundant and extremely exited, but his look will be getting dull at once. "My father says the factory should catch the goods, very busy, I have not nearly seen father for one year! " Father will phone him each month, this is the small abundant moment when expects most. Say smallly and abundantly and sensibly: "These days staying with father, feel father really very hard, I will work as a brave policeman afterwards, will let father live a good life "

The township of workshop of Korea S. of Jiangxi Jiangxi county is the large township of the export of labour services, chief of township Lai HouHui introduces, here is nearly every household someone works as a temporary labourer, starts an undertaking outside, it is basically old man and child at home. Take core elementary school of workshop of Korea S. as examples, school this have student in all 1100 people, " stay behind to take care of things child " There are 742 people, accounts for 67.5%. Among them, the ones that went out to work as a temporary labourer in one party of parents accounted for 24%; Parents both sides go out what has been worked as a temporary labourer accounts for 76%. The statistics show, the intersection of Jiangxi and county have 200,000 more than people go out, work throughout the year, the whole county " stay behind to take care of things student " Up to 18,000, accounts for 30% of the total number of students of the whole county.

Study, stay behind to take care of things Ministry of Agriculture of children grind Lu ShaoQing, Assistant Researcher of in the center, say while being agricultural for a long time, countryside stay behind to take care of things children whether of our country large-scale population flow first special social groups that appear under course. With urbanization, industrialized fast development, the increasingly many rural laborer will transfer to the city and obtain employment, stay behind to take care of things the intersection of colony and scale of children can continuation is expanded thereupon too.

2. " not so good as not giving birth to me "

--The long-term kindred is lacked, manage the child on behalf of another and do one's best, " to stay behind to take care of things " Syndrome that a series of appearance stays behind to take care of things: Detest and study, the personality is unsociable and eccentric, cooperation consciousness is bad

"Mum, how are you? I miss you very much! You earn money outside arduously, though you are not at home, my heart can experience your existence. Achievement of me outstanding, please rest assured by father! " At noon on November 17, the classmates all left school to go home, the first experimental school students of grade seven of rich country of Zhanhua county of Shandong sit on one's own seat keeping a diary youngly and beautifully.

Small to say my father and mum work as a temporary labourer in Qingdao, my father carries the marine products at the ship in fishing port while being American, mother follows to make the odd-job. Since keeping a record of events, she lives together with grand-mother grandmother grandfather. She looks much more sensible than other classmates.

"I really miss you, you should not be too tired, pay attention to taking care! " Write, the tears flood in the small and beautiful eyes. It is small beautiful to have lunch in the school every day, the boxed meal only needs 2 yuan, it is small and beautiful but feel very luxurious. "Grandmother's grand-mother's grandfather is very kind to me, the ones that always let me eat well as much as possible are drunk, it is still different from Papa and Mama. " Small to say if parents at home, she can meal come, open one's mouth clothing come on, stretch out one's hand carefreely while being American, but different to the grand-mother grandmother grandfather. Small to bear, see, busy with, look after oneself back before the busy old man while being American, so no matter how nervously does it learn, it is small and beautiful find time to do some more housework as much as possible.

But compared with these, small American heart will attack the feeling of loneliness of setting one's heart at any time the most different to standly. She especially cherishes in the time for reunion of Qingdao with parents, it is small and beautiful every summer vacation will go to Qingdao, feel a pain the most in separation after can reunite ing. Give to her by bus each time, mother is all holding the tear in the eyes, my father cries and speaks regardless of the man's face. "My father cries twice in front of me "Have talked about this smallly and beautifully and already choked with sobs. It is said that it is small and beautiful, her greatest wish is to hope Papa and Mama go home early, mother no longer drifts, does not work as a temporary labourer to suffer hardships again.

"Parents give birth to me and leave me alone again, can not it would be better rawly. " Hear such passive answer from the forest forest on grade three in primary school in the mouth, really make people cardialgia. Lin Lin has no parents one year old to go out to work as a temporary labourer, Lin Lin all the time and the grandmother has been interdependent. Because the grandmother has no culture, older, are disciplining the grandson and having and having a heart but no strength. As time passes, Lin Lin forms the wilful personality, extremely rebels against.

Shandong the intersection of Zhanhua and the intersection of county and the intersection of rich country and first JinXia Zhang, Mr. of experimental school, say, " stay behind to take care of things child " Because separate from parents for a long time, the physiologically or psychological demand can not be satisfied, take the place of, administrate personnel, supervise, do one's best again sometimes, will appear a series of " stay behind to take care of things syndrome " ,Detest, learn mood increase and school grade drop and personality unsociable and eccentric running into minor matter to be easy to go to extremes etc.. "Some children exist wilfully, it is bad that unsociable and eccentric, cold and detached, melancholy and suspicious, does not explain decorum, cooperation consciousness, such personality defects and psychological obstacles at various degrees in many aspectses as enterprise is bad. "

Know, stay behind to take care of things children majority by grandparents,etc. through look after for relative in the family in reporter interviewing China, because of physical power, knowledge, through say " look after children, feel straining " for guardian majority , " only look after life, other things can not be in charge of " . It is reported, in Jiangxi Jiangxi county, stays behind to take care of things children detest and learn, the phenomenon of forsaking studies is general, nearly half the child's school grades are in medium-sizedly on the lower side. The burden when some children have got married is relatives and friends " Play " Come to " play " Go, put to granddad's grandmother's family for a moment, get to cousin's family for a moment, make child's psychology while as a child uneven, think oneself is " The surplus person " .

Lu ShaoQing say, not around for a long time because of parents, stay behind to take care of things children face the challenge in such aspects as life, study, psychology. Question that children merit attention of the psychological problem most of staying behind to take care of things in the countryside. The disappearance of the kindred makes children unsociable and eccentric, depressed, even there is a kind of abandoned feeling, have influenced the sound development of child's psychology seriously. Lu ShaoQing says, discovers, are staying behind to take care of things partly and developing towards two extreme directions on children's personality behavior. On one hand, some children because feel the disappearance that parents protect and become timid, cowardly; On the other hand, some stay behind to take care of things children the behavior lose Fan because of restraint without parents, become short-tempered, wilful and fighting etc.. Lack, discipline, initiate behavior lose Fan, derail even, reflect more generally on staying behind to take care of things children. "Certainly have positive change that the psychological behaviors of some children make people gratified too, viability and studying consciousness to improve, selfdiscipline is strengthened, is rich in sense of duty,etc.er. "

3. " the special love is given to you who are special "

--Solve " stay behind to take care of things child " The key to the question is in the city, the government, school, social neat efforts, give them more care

It is not only educational problem, but also a social concern to stay behind to take care of things puerily. Lu ShaoQing analyzes, stay behind to take care of things in the countryside children's production come from two respects of family and the society. On one hand, the poverty of the family, enable the child's parents have to go out of the countryside to the city to work; On the other hand, long-term system of two yuan in urban and rural areas and the treatment unfair to the rural worker of society in our country, make a lot of peasants have no idea and ability lead child into the city. "Questions of children of staying behind to take care of things display in the countryside, but solve and stay behind to take care of things the key to the problems of children should be in the city. " Improve the employment living environment of the rural worker in the city, especially improve the policy environment that the rural worker children go to school in the urban school, solve and stay behind to take care of things the children problem scheme getting a permanent cure.

ShaoQing Lu say, solve countryside stay behind to take care of things the intersection of children and problem need, flow into flow out the intersection of ground and government, school and joint efforts of society. Strengthen and implement the supervision of the course to policies for education of children of flowing, help some to have ready conditions to carry the rural workers to the city to read of children to solve the worry. Strengthen the support to the school for temporary labourers' children at the same time, such as train teacher, improve teaching and manage quality,etc. regularly, make the rural worker children accept high-quality education in the city too. In addition, also need to give full play to children's care and guardianship function to staying behind to take care of things of rural school.

The reporter finds in the interview joyfully, a lot of export of labour services has already taken action, start, stay behind to take care of things children care about project, children light the heart light for stay behind to take care of things one after another.

It is at Shandong Zhanhua county, it set up " knowing three, three more, three communication " The mechanism, namely know children's basic situation very well and stay behind to take care of things, many and stay behind to take care of things children lay one's heart bear and have a heart-to-heart talk etc.. On the basis of investigating further, Zhanhua county stayed behind to take care of things for 943 children set up personal facts and contacted the card. The intersection of rich country and first the east Wang, headmaster of experimental school, county of Zhanhua, say school begin, pay close attention to, stay behind to take care of things children before 3 year, besides set up special file, launch " the more than 5 pieces " in staying behind to take care of things children also Activity. Stay behind to take care of things for each children implement one the intersection of agency and parents, each stay behind to take care of things children make a good friend, make kindred telephone once every week, hold theme educational activities once per month, read a good book per month. Every school of Zhanhua county still builds up " The kindred post " ,Organize the teacher to listen attentively to the child's heartfelt wishes of staying behind to take care of things, untie the hearts to form with the true feelings, the child guides the psychology to staying behind to take care of things pointedly. Set up group, parents of agency, by the intersection of Party and government offices and staff member, the intersection of school and counsellor, teach Mr., retired Mr. make up, help to stay behind to take care of things the child walks out lonelily and melancholily.

"The special love is given to you who are special "Sing nine grade stay behind to take care of things children to be little to fly to in the the intersection of Jiangxi and Jiangxi county two. The naughty boy in this everybody's eyes, nowadays make up " six people's group of oriental cherry " with the classmates in the class ,Their dream is to work as a network singer. Give light to fly, it brings changes in quality to be the intersection of Jiangxi and county stay behind to take care of things student care about the project.

As far back as 2004, the intersection of Jiangxi and county raise fund set up " stay behind to take care of things student " actively Educational the intersection of management and special fund, establish " stay behind to take care of things student " Deposit the centre. The intersection of sand ground and the intersection of town and centre, county of Jiangxi, grade teacher, national outstanding gold lotus, king of teacher, over the past 14 years successively voluntary to charge, stay behind to take care of things 326 childrens, show loving care for help, offer in study to kind consideration, spirit in life, devote the wholehearted and trickling sluggishly mother love to the children unselfishly. The open police, Xu XiaoChun of port township local police station in Jiangxi county run bringing 4 collegegirls in the yellow sand primary school " Stay behind to take care of things the child deposits the class " ,For 32 " stay behind to take care of things child " Bring to the warmth of the family

Development to solve, stay behind to take care of things the intersection of children and problem basic scheme. Jiangxi MingSheng Li, secretary of county Party committee of county, say we want, stay behind to take care of things solving the intersection of children and problem and move forward " 3 take " (industrialization, urbanization, agricultural industrialization) Building, improving the people's livelihood to interrelate constantly, strengthen the input in education by every possible means, care about to children.

(Note: It is the assumed name that it is puerile to stay behind to take care of things in the article)

Many ways in all parts of the country care about and stay behind to take care of things children (chain)

Henan Province is that a rural laborer exports the large province, it is the national countryside that stays behind to take care of things in one of children's most provinces too. At present, Henan Province under the age of 14 to stay behind to take care of things the intersection of children and the intersection of quantity and nearly 3 million people. In recent years, implement in Henan Province " to stay behind to take care of things the child cares about the project " ,Set up " manage parents on behalf of another " The system, run and lodge and make the school, help to stay behind to take care of things children grow up healthy and sound.

More than 3,600,000 stay behind to take care of things puerily in Anhui Province. From this year, Anhui saves effort and fights for it in 3 years, set up staying behind to take care of things the children activity room in 1308 villages and towns of the whole province, have already built up 400 in the first batch.

The provincial finance of Gansu invests 20 million yuan, implements " care about and stay behind to take care of things children to cover and take action absolutely " ,Build home for a children stayed behind to take care of things in each of villages and towns of the whole province.

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Children's current situation of staying behind to take care of things of countryside is investigated: The long-term kindred lacks and causes the personality to be unsociable and eccentric