It influences personality to bring up the way

It influences personality to bring up the way
Staff reporter Zhang Ying

In our daily life, meet the teenagers with odd specific temper sometimes, everything is out of the common, it is difficult to get along with others. For example personality introversive and unsociable and eccentric sensitive and suspicious regarding oneself as the centre and mood unstable it pursues perfections, overstrain to be anxious, etcing. We usually think they are children having a bad temper.

"Analyze may some is that personality is deviated from in the child of these ' have a bad temper ' in terms of modern spiritual medical science. " The yellow happy hardworking professor of Deputy Director of research institute of the mental hygiene of Peking University introduces, in teenagers one, are shown as the personality with odd temper is deviated from and can be corrected through the psychotherapy, get in time correcting, might develop into one name " personality obstacle " to adulthood Psychonosema.

The personality obstacle is a behavioral deep-rooted maladjustment type, can present at juvenile stage or earlier stage, and run through the whole life course. It is it deviate from in lasting, lasting mannering or inherent to experience, can cause social activity, function damage of the job or heart agony. Although the patient does not have intellectual obstacle, the behavior pattern of the maladjustment is difficult to correct, only a few patients improve to a certain extent to some extent after growing up, the diagnosis that can carry on the personality obstacle that reach the age of 18. According to the diagnostic standard that U.S.A. psychosis is learnt, the personality obstacle is divided into 10 type 3 groups, including splitting type, bigoted type, drama type, narcissism type, antisocial type, relying on type,etc..

Lasted 3 years, the institute of public health of Peking University added up to epidemiology that the students of grade of more than 10,000 Senior One carried on the personality obstacle to investigate to 25 high schools in Beijing. This is revealed, in the student in Senior one, lead the girl to be 8.3% in detection that personality deviates from by the yellow happy hardworking leader's research, boys are 12.6%. If these children can not get and correct in time, will probably develop into the personality obstacle to the adulthood. The relevant materials from U.S.A., Britain and Germany reveal, the total ill rate that the crowd hits the personality obstacle is 6%-15%. The ill rate of different kinds of personality obstacles is different to some extent between man and women, if the social personality obstacle sees more men instead, and the edge type sees more women with the performing personality obstacle even more.

The pathology of cause of disease of the personality obstacle was not totally expounded so far. The finding of the yellow happy hardworking leader, heredity degree of the personality obstacle is 80%. In addition, the unreasonable social influence that brings up the way and bad deviates from personality there is certain relation with the emergence of the personality obstacle.

Have described a personality obstacle case that she has ever contacted to the reporter yellowly and happily and hardworkingly: One leave one's post veteran cadre, when forty or fifty year old climacteric, husband transfer, get, leave home kilometer of cities work. She wants to be busy working, will look after mother and child, the family burden was aggravated suddenly. Husband's male chauvinism is inclined to seriously, it is not enough to show consideration for her. Later, she began to suspect the husband has extramarital relations, so long as the husband kept in touch with other women, she makes a noise endlessly, uses various means to follow the husband. The husband is really unable to stand, two people divorce when there is a grandson at more than 60 years old. Diagnose yellowly and happily and hardworkingly, what this woman suffered from is bigoted type personality obstacle.

Why reach the age of 18, carry on the intersection of personality and diagnosis of obstacle? Explain yellowly and happily and hardworkingly, though once personality obstacle is difficult to change to take shape, but for teenagers in adolescence under the age of 18, personality has reversible the greater one, namely the teenagers deviating from personality can pass and intervene the improvement to some extent. In this course, the breeding transmission inside the family is playing a very important role. So, recommend bringing up the way to prevent yellowly and happily and hardworkingly from and correct personality to deviate from with correct parents.

First of all, parents should adopt the warm type bringing up the way of emotion to the child. If the child gets the warm emotion from parents' place in the course of growing up, they will be full of confidence in life, treat life with the positive and upward optimistic attitude, grant sympathizing with and show loving care for, treat person and thing around kindly to others.

Secondly, don't excessively protect the child, excessively protecting will hamper children's independence and social ability's progress, so that the bad personality characteristic of lacking self-confident, excessive selfdiscipline and depending on unduly etc. of enabling children form. Parents should care what the child is make, but should not interfere too much; Parents should cherish children, but should not look after excessively; Parents should instruct children how to do things, but should not excessively worry about for may make mistakes ing. In a word, parents should offer children enough personal spaces.

In addition, parents mustn't take the refusing type to bring up the way to the child. A lot of research show, parents that punish, criticize too much for a long time bring up way to be apt to make children form, meet bad personality characteristic of the society while being difficult, thus the personality foundation before forming the disease of psychonosema such as the personality obstacle. Grow up healthy and sound in all respects for child, don't punish to children excessively, imputes to, shame and abusing in public, let the child grow up in harmonious, warm home environment, form healthy personality.


It influences personality to bring up the way