The sixty-year-old old men acts as in 15 years "

The sixty-year-old old men acts as in 15 years " The residence man " Look after the paralysed wife and invent the urine alarm

Look at and grow and take spouse's blood pressure


Look and grow and take spouse's blood pressure and look at and grow as spouse's massage shank " residence man " ,Generally mean the men of the life and work at home for a long time. And Wuchang with the intersection of house and the intersection of mountain range and community have person look at, give birth to old man while being 68 -year-old, spouse paralyse in the bed behind the surgery before the 15 year, he bears the work of looking after the spouse, and decline the request that son and daughter demanded to look after.

Over the past 15 years, he has looked after the spouse at home every day, is willing to be " residence man " ,Lianjiang what sample beach turn into and what like is white the intersection of shoal and bridge that build, he does not know. And his hard-working, bring the happy result: Spouse over the past 15 years, have a fever, be there first hospital only. Even doctor is called " The miracle " .

To not knowing the change in Wuhan, looks at and grows and does not regret: "Things these, look after spouse, see smile of spouse, than stand up, that is not worth mentioning! "

Look at and grow 68 -year-old this year, there is a happy family. He is a worker of Wuchang shipyard, spouse Xu ChunFang is in the work of Passenger Dept of the railway. But an operation of the spouse's, makeovered the destiny of the whole family 15 years ago.

In August of 1993, 50 -year-old Xu Chun was sweet-smelling to take very smooth road and want wrestling. Feel looking at, growing strange, expect, may level shoes, saw flat the intersection of spouse and Xu Chun sweet-smelling the intersection of shoes and heel.

However, this has not changed spring slowly sweet-smellingly to take and level the road and take several situations of continuous wrestling. What is the matter? Looking at and giving birth to and is sent the spouse to the People's Hospital of Wuhan University to check, the expert diagnoses as the spinal oppresses the nerve. Because a fitting one is the hospital of Wuhan railway (the subsidiary weather of University of Science and Technology in Wuhan helps the hospital now) ,Xu ChunFang is transferred from one hospital to another the treatment.

The doctor analyzed, she may present three kinds of situations after operation at that time: First, totally recover; Second, better than the now condition; Third, malignant tumour, the condition becomes more serious.

Through weighing repeatedly, on November 3, 1993, Xu ChunFang carried on the operation. Who knows, after the operation, she can't walk at all, is paralysed in the bed. Family hold a gleam of hope, but the miracle has not appeared eventually. The doctor diagnoses as finally " Spinal pathological change withers " ,Spring all lose consciousness under sweet-smelling thoracic vertebrae slowly, can only lie in bed.

Look at and grow and have to retire ahead of time, bear the important task of looking after the wife.

The originally happy family becomes heavy quickly.

Xu ChunFang lies in bed, does not eat and does not drink all day. "I do not want to live, you let, I drop dead! " She grows and loses the temper in looking at easily, it is salty and non- delicious to dislike and avoid the dish that he fried sometimes, think sometimes and look at and grow that waits a moment thoughtfully.

Look at and give birth to knowing the spouse feels blue, look for " stubble " on purpose ,Apologize for that smiling to the wife, and show that must do according to the wife's meaning.

Son Zhang Ming, daughter Zhang Fen watch with the tail of one's eye, urgent in the heart. When they have no thing, come to accompany mother to speak too, " you think of eating anything, want to drink anything, tell us! " Gradually, has seen whole family all moving round oneself, gentle slowly in the sweet-smelling heart in spring slowly, "has already been paralysed, how can do? "

Paralyse in bed for a long time, sweet-smelling to urinate incontinence in spring slowly, look at, born, help, change the intersection of urine and block often. Old clothes and old towel in the family, all cut into urine slice him, put by the bed at any time.

While meeting it coldly, it is born with worrying even more looking at, because the family lives on the 3rd floor, the sunshine is not very sufficient, it is very difficult for the wet cotton fibre of urine to dry. It is a radio amateur to look at and give birth to, he is trying to design an alarm, put in urine slice and rubberized fabric, below is the cotton fibre. Meet and urinate and drench the urine slice, the alarm " ticks and ticks " Stand up loudly.

This trick is very effective, the alarm is loud, look at and grow and rush to help to change the urine one.

The patient lying in bed for a long time, the easiest raw meat sore. Though looking at and giving birth to often help the wife to stand up and rub the shank, the sore that the wife still unavoidably puts on flesh on one's body.

Under the guidance of doctor, look at and grow and buy the medical scissors and sterilize medicinal liquid, help to attend to the meat sore. One day, the big meat sore of a long child's fist of sweet-smelling buttocks in spring, will get up to give birth to " family doctor " while looking at slowly ,He sterilizes the scissors with alcohol, then cut the rotten meat on the meat sore bit by bit. Though stench is bad, he has not hesitated at all. After finishing cutting, he scribbles on the wound surface by sterilizing medicinal liquid.

Strange too in fact, it is raw after cutting the rotten meat to look at, there is not long rotten meat in this place, just leave the scar. Later, run into the sore of putting on flesh on the wife each time, he adopts this indigenous method.

Lie in bed and does not move for a long time, let Xu ChunFang suffer from constipation too, the stool is dry and hard, can't come out at all. Having no choice, it is born with wearing gloves looking at, squash gently with the tweezers, help is drawn out. Nearly every other day, he will help Xu ChunFang to draw once.

As time goes on, looking at and growing and drawing the stool accumulates some experiences too. He says: "You draw with the tweezers, must handle appropriately and if let the tweezers touch the meat because of carelessness, will let the patient feel bad! "

Moreover, he has also learnt to examine the body temperature, take blood pressure etc. for the spouse.

It is a difficult problem too to have a bath. In summer, in order that spring is sweet-smelling while having a bath slowly, look at a bulk rubberized fabric that is born with buying specially, cut hanging down by the edge of bed, water falls in the bathing-tub along the rubberized fabric while having a bath. And reached winter, it is born with helping her to wipe the body every day simply looking at.

Responsibility for bearing the responsibility the hairdresser of looking at and surviving. He himself holds the specialized scissors bought, cut the hair for the wife. And Xu ChunFang who likes to be beautiful, always shines holding the mirror behind finishing cutting the hair: "I think how he helps me to cut! "

In order to look after the wife physically and mentally, look at and grow and buy the medical bed, it is convenient to go up and down, let the wife half lie slowly sometimes. He himself is putting a baby bed sideways, sleep by the wife, in order to know the wife's demand at any time.

Can be insisting on coming down and looking after the wife all the time, has benefited from and looked at to grow the good health and fitness. Looked at and grew in youth, often run, seldom fall ill. Son and daughter see he works hard, wants to help to look after mother sometimes, but look at and grow to disagree: "It doesn't matter, your mother has already been used to my treatment, has let me look after! " Having no idea, everybody only continues to let to look at to grow and look after. The son-in-law loves and looks at to grow, give one's own chest expander and dumbbell to him, " you should be free to take exercises at home, the body has collapsed, you look after (the mother-in-law) It is not good! "

It is not the health that the iron is made after all. Will it be May 2004, look at, catch because hepatopathy live in the People's Hospital of Wuhan University. Look at and grow and phone to invite Xu ChunFang's younger sister at once, it is sweet-smelling in spring that help is looked after slowly.

However, even so, it is to make a telephone call to the family to look at and grow everyday, inquire the wife's situation. And so long as hear his voice, Xu ChunFang says: " a head (wife's pet name to him) ,You have recovered from illness, have come back earlier! "

Two weeks later, look at and fall ill and leave hospital, the first thing of going home, do a sumptuous cooked food for the wife.

Since the wife lay in bed at the end of 1993, it is born with staying at home all day long looking at. Even if go to buy vegetables, he will agree with the spouse, " I go out to buy vegetables, probably come back in half an hour! " Then, he blocks dragging two sticks of rope by the bed, prevents the wife from falling down. Look at and grow and explain: "The spouse always thought that could leave the bed and get about by oneself, she had had it several times to almost backfall by oneself! "

Generally go out, look at and born with doing two things: Either go to buy vegetables, or go to have a hair-cut. Will not exceed half an hour generally.

May be close to look after the result brought, over the past 15 years, Xu ChunFang was only last year once it is sent to the hospital treatment that fever was terrible.

The quiet break at home of my old man, it is born with learning the book about looking after the paralysed patient that the daughter bought looking at, or dally with the thing that he likes.

The neighbour's electric apparatus is out of order, send and give him repairing, he always overhauls tirelessly. He himself often repairs the electric apparatus too when home does not have a thing. "When I have no thing, do woodwork and live yet, I did the small plank stool of the family now! "

On New Year's Day and other festivals, son and daughter who has already got married, are bringing whole family to here, all eat a meal lively. And the dish cooked, all some has already processed the good semi-manufactured goods, the purpose just reunions for whole family.

Yesterday, reporter come, lie in Wuchang with the intersection of house and the intersection of mountain range and eight the intersection of village and the intersection of railway and the intersection of dormitory and 2 2 Entrance the 3rd floor look at and grow the house. The reporter sees, because the old man of Xu ChunFang can not see the sunshine all the year round, the face is very white, and two legs have already withered. She says with a smile: "I was fat originally, it was thin in 15 years that this was ill! "

Speak of " a head " ,Xu ChunFang says: "In so many years, if without his treatment, I am afraid the already getting long weeds on the grave mound! I am very much obliged to him. If have next life, we still become couple. "

The expert of the People's Hospital of Wuhan University, after having a physical examination for the old man of Xu ChunFang to the doorstep, claim repeatedly: "Always looked after so well slowly, has seldom fallen ill over the past 15 years, I haven't seen you for a long time! " Some neighbours praise Zhang Lao too: "Has stayed indoor over the past 15 years and looked after the spouse, it is difficult, he is an exemplary husband! " (moustache justice Chinese Liu is loyal and righteous)

The sixty-year-old old men acts as in 15 years " The residence man " Look after the paralysed wife and invent the urine alarm