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Pay close attention to the fact the world prevents from committing suicide on day: Successful men are 3 times of women to commit suicide
Welcome the eighth today " The world prevents from committing suicide on day " ,A heavy topic appears in front of us again. The reporter knew from several main hospitals in our city, commit suicide and connect and examine the number of people to remain high this year yesterday, the hospital of city two receives more than one hundred alone. Lifelike lives are disappearing in front of us like this if looking at, the suicide of the whole society is intervened very urgently.


The data: Successful men are 3 times of women's to commit suicide

Characteristic:

Multi-purpose extreme way of jumping out of the building etc.

Two hospital emergency call head of the department Li Hes of market will come and say, persons who more commit suicide adopt very extreme suicidal way of jumping out of the building, hanging oneself etc., rescue and bring the great difficulty to the medical worker.

Reason:

The high pressure is too passive

Chief physician of hospital department of nerve internal medicine Xie RuiLu of the city two analyzes, there are two kinds of to cause main reasons to commit suicide, first, interpersonal relationships, working, undertaking pressure are too big, or external reasons such as emotion, marriage and disease,etc.; It is too passive, too extreme that another one is to look at problem, the internal cause formed because personal cognition goes to extremes.

Xie RuiLu says, the person with suicide is not good at pouring out, a part is to afraid of troubling friends of family, "this is exactly that their cognition has gone wrong, unidentified white man and love and help between the people are mutual. " And another part does not think family, friend can help oneself, " this part of people often requires others too high, the psychological drop is very great too. "

Manifestation

Cared suddenly family should be careful

Xie RuiLu says, the majority commits suicide and inclined to having the symptom.

The example 1: Do not pay attention to appearance very much at ordinary times, will suddenly tidy up oneself and family very clean;

The example 2: Seldom care about family at ordinary times, will suddenly behave family very much and care about, very close;

The example 3: Will often say some " Alive having no meaning " Have not " used by oneself " ,etc..

The example 4: If is the teenagers, will also surf the Net and search for some information correlated with committing suicide.

How to prevent from committing suicide and is inclined to?

Individual should learn to confide

The thought is steady: It is sure to have a piece of relatively stable values and person's physiology to think to conduct oneself, don't overly drift with the tide, can keep the inherent relative stability.

Forgive: She advises people to have enough forgiving degree, and learn to love others.

The society pours out: When no matter how the people of the scene are lonely, helpless, lose, at this time, seem very important to the pouring out of family, friend.

Relatives and friends should pay attention to his strongly fragrant knot

Make the best of and support the system: Generally speaking, the contradiction psychology that the persons who commit suicide are in wanting to die and wish eagerly to be succoured before suicide, if it is unable to find anyone at one's side strongly fragrant for a long time and form to a certain thing to one's heart's content, should seek, pour out worried, receive the help situation by around friend, relative while being light. The serious one should apply to psychologist for help immediately.

24 hours " Control " : If find someone has a symptom that commits suicide at one's side, must make he 24 hours not leave the family or friend's sight, in order to keep a lookout.

Two extreme cases

" close " Come out

Home son imprisoned cuts the wrist to make a noise to jump out of the building

It is 22 -year-old small and strong (assumed name) Worked in a public institution, knew younger and redder than one's own big 8 -year-old girl in the year before last (assumed name) . This year is New Year's Day, two people meet at the bar by chance, fall in love, live in the small strong family small and red. Small to do house work is little to spend money, become wasteful too while being strong, the intersection of mother and GuiHua Wang object to two together people strongly never while being red.

The beginning of July is small and strong promise to say good-bye to girl friend, it is looked for small and red that Mr. and Mrs. Wang GuiHua noes his going out. 5 o'clock afternoon of the day before yesterday is small and strong drank the stuffy wine at home, the lower belly of 8 bottles of beer, sottish. Wang GuiHua can't help scolding him, took out a blade from the fruit platter youngly and strongly suddenly, scratch the left hand wrist.

Until sweet-scented osmanthus Wang look for gauze for son, wrap up, small to shout first while being strong: "I want to go out, do you really let me go? " Run to the window and want to jump out of the building. Wang GuiHua stops him and calls the police in time. With the help of police, small to send to the hospital and rescue, sew up 11 stitch while being better.

Forced to study the boy 10 years old to get killed by inches

Little 10 -year-old male genital (assumed name) It is one fourth grade primary school student of primary school in Chengdu, the achievement is outstanding, gifted in many ways, the family circumstances are rich. It is reported, he liking the soccer, can only accept parents' opinion to study the piano, besides finishing working after class, he should join various continuation classes, is busy with morning late every day, feel very tired.

In a mathematics examination, the little male genital only does in the test more than 80 fen, is criticized in the classroom by the teacher. He does not want to make homework, is scolded severely by mother under being hurt and wronged.

It was just weekend the next day, the small male genital meant to play football to relax, but quilt mother's requirement went to in the training class of the piano. Sit in the sitting room, the little male genital cries stealthily, takes out a blade from the schoolbag, row to one's own wrist, the blood flows continuously. He aching, fainting is sent to the hospital, a life that rescue, answer. (Zhang Wei)

Pay close attention to the fact the world prevents from committing suicide on day: Successful men are 3 times of women to commit suicide