It is not excessive to show loving care for the

It is not excessive to show loving care for the cancer patient
According to " family health care newspaper ", after relatives and friends suffer from cancer, people usually will care about it, and the psychological expert reminds, as to the thing that patient shows loving care for cancer appropriately, excessive care is apt to cause their psychology to be uncomfortable instead. To show as excessive care:

First, obviously express in front of the patient and take pity on and sympathize with, instead of talking too meticulously, the patient will associate it with the difference between oneself and ordinary person and be already been repelled in the social normal life oneself, introversive sensitive the intersection of patient and this kind of feeling those will be stronger.

Second, it is too kind to show loving care for and look after, even take on what ought to be done by others to squeeze toothpaste out of a tube, twist the towel, it is so apt to make the patient feel oneself has already been a disabled person, thus lose the confidence of life, some patients will also produce and rely on the psychology, it must cause the function to lose for a long time to call.

Third, intend to cut off patient's connection with society. Restrain from, visit, forbid patient read, read the newspaper, dwindle his scope of activities,etc. too strict, the consequence of doing it in this way is to make patient's feeling of loneliness stronger, even produced the feeling which the society abandons.

Fourth, inappropriate dieting, if this can't be eaten either, then can't touch either, normal couple's life is refused politely and deprived, it is malnutritive that it is so easiest to lead to the fact and spirit is unusual.

In fact, so long as cancer patient does not have very serious condition, it is not the auxiliary measure that must be taken while especially treating (need isolating and sterilizing if implementing chemotherapy and personal treatment, prevent cross infection) ,Limit normal activity its while being unnecessary totally, want, encourage it close to to society since taking care of oneself, just favorable to recovering. (slight snow)

It is not excessive to show loving care for the cancer patient