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The women white collar 34 years old suffers from " Smiling depression " The son is called a performer
The morning of yesterday, 34 -year-old Cheng Wei (assumed name) Facing toward the mirror to push out of smiling hard. Over the recent half years, she promoted, thinks that it is more difficult to go home, smile, "but if you are my customer, I can be facing toward you and smile very professionally soon. "

Engaged in the sale of real estate for 8 years, Cheng Wei said, enters the environment of working, she can wear the smile automatically, but can not laugh again after going home, in son's eyes, even become " performer " oneself . In the psychological clinic of the southwest hospital, the expert says, Cheng Wei suffers from smiling depression after diagnosing.

She smiles at everyone while going to work

8 years ago, originally studying Cheng Wei with specialized law and changing one's profession does the real estate to sell, since a ordinary selling the young lady of the building, sales manager who is present. Cheng Wei says through the whole journey, how difficult to only know, the most basic one is oneself, must hang up a smiling face at any time, and can smile at out everyone.

"I want, face different customer every day, have dealings with different persons, no matter oneself mood many, must all take the smile on the face, time just became the habit slowly long. " Cheng Wei says, meets the customer impervious to reason sometimes, the other side will even let loose a stream of savage invective, but look at one's own business wear on one's body, must remind one's own necessary speciality, "the customer is our parents of basic necessities of life, must smile without thinking of smashing the rice bowl, even if must cry to transfer to one when giving you a piggyback. "

Cheng Wei says, the on-the-job field, the smile seems very delicate, besides needing to keep the specialized smile to guests, getting along between the colleagues, smiling becomes the necessities too. Came down in 8, go to work smilingly every day by oneself, smile at the leader, is facing toward the customer and smile, try hard to remain smiling too when in the face of being subordinate, " sometimes, I will be responsible for teaching new staff, what friendly service of the speciality, smile at the enthusiasm, nature, give somebody the feeling of on intimate termsing, in fact but I think that smile very tiredly. "

Become the bitter gourd face automatically after coming off duty

Radiant with smiles in the unit, but after is the door of office closed or gone home, Cheng Wei thinks that totally changes oneself, that agreeable smiling face will be turned into a bitter gourd face automatically.

"Smile happily outside, smile at the speciality, I will think the more false oneself lives, the temper is more and more irritable in the face of family. " Wei Cheng say get back to after the home sometimes, oneself will difficult to afford to control, even quarrel, throw the plate, break the behavior of the telephone, " I find too that seldom smile at family oneself, because I have already smiled very tiredly outside. "

Let Cheng Wei realize that it is a son's a word to go wrong oneself. Before National Day, the company organized the party, demanded to take relatives, Cheng Wei contains and attends bringing husband and son at that night. During the feast, the colleague is toasted one by one, Cheng Wei returns a compliment smiling lifting the wineglass too. When it is late, whole family went home by car, sit son in back row speak sentence, let her feel very much awkward what so far towards her suddenly: "Mum, you change a face on the outside like a performer. "

At that night, the son's words let Cheng Wei feel a pain very much, she thinks she is like a piece of " two-sided glue " that work takes off .

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But smiled in the working environment much, smiled at the job very much sometimes, after coming back home, want, make, answer actual oneself.

"My girlfriend's classmates when being the university, work in the state-owned enterprise now, she does not understand me for my this kind of state very much. " Wang Qiang says, " I see the customer with a smile every day, it is in fact for realizing one's own work values too. But the girl friend thinks I have made the society more and more. "

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Originally, during National Day, Xiao the Yuan 's introduced a series of activity of purchasing the car and giving a present, and she is responsible for selling the car and explaining the work how to gain the present to customer live. On the same day, Mr. Li bought a car about 100,000 yuans, when Xiao Yuan has explained to him how to get the present, Mr. Li's inquiry constantly can " Take more " ,Xiao Yuan tactfuls express and refuses with a smile. Let whom people do not think of, after the several minute, until " whether the face laugh at the intersection of train and too low end that oneself bought " Mr. Li It is from,informing whether company lasting after getting.

The expert understands & gt;

The white collar of the service industries is apt to suffer from smiling depression

As to to tell southwest the intersection of hospital and psychological the intersection of expert and Ju Wei Professor say Wei Cheng, she suffers from smiling depression.

Who are apt to suffer from smiling depression: The overwhelming majority is the white collar of career, the patient takes the professionals of service industries, public relations industry and service trade as the core again, it is relatively high in the education to be common, there are certain identity, white collar of the position on one's body.

Why trouble and smiling depression: A lot of daytime of career people most time needs to be smiling, suppress one's own one angrily, sadly. Get back to after the home, hidden grievance and may break out while being discontented. It is long, will suffer from psychological disease.

Expert give an idea & gt;

Should not disguise learning the release pressure simply

How to get rid of smiling depression, Professor Ju Wei says, modern professional people will often face greater working pressure, if the pressure release, will turn a kind of recessiveness for a long time " The depressed state " . So, must release the too big pressure in time, the way is varied, for example go out to spend holidays with family, can release by various relaxation exercises, sports, also can choose to stay alone, freedom expresses one's own one angrily and discontentedly. At work, the white collar still need to learn to become quiet to think, review one's own obtaining employment state and psychology, but not disguise oneself simply.

Participate in the systematic psychology and train and know the job and smile correctly

Engaged in the yellow clear male genital of the marketing trade, has been appraised as the trade and business of Chongqing the trade " smiling ambassador " . As to the thing that the job market smiles, he has one's own views, " actually I understand very much that suffer from the white collar of the smiling depression, a lot of friends around me have a similar situation too, as career people, our self-regulation is very important. "

Huang ZhaoYang says, needs to have a correct understanding on smiling in job at first, should learn to discongest one's own bad mood too by oneself. And to the professional of some service industries, even can participate in the systematic psychology and is trained.

Smiling depression

It is one kind of depression, happen in a new kind of depressed inclination on one's body of white collar of city more.

Work need, need, need, dignity and need of responsibility of courtesy of face, their daytime most time is smiling, become the burden as time passes, depression of mood appears. (the intersection of chief correspondent and prosperous ice Liu, intern of coral, Wang)


The women white collar 34 years old suffers from " Smiling depression " The son is called a performer