The snowfield of baby 4 years old is naked the education dispute that initiates runs
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What kind of father is this one, let 4 -year-old son run nakedly about 5 minutes in 13 degrees below zero the intersection of New York and the intersection of street and snowfield. The child has called 6 sounds of fathers, but father is not visibly moved.
A section of video spreading on the net recently, enable this to nowadays father and son in Nanjing, become the focus attracting people's attention. Father He LieSheng introduces, it is mostly an early newborn baby that there are many sons, suspected that may have suffered from brain paralysis by the doctor when being born in, for temper health its, child come out, begin, swim right away several days from nursery, young to train many kinds of the open air of climbing, skiing etc. already. He LieSheng's one's own almost cruel education way, is called " the hawk type will be educated " ,Claim to wish to do one " Hawk's father " .
It is middle and primary schools that start a new term first day yesterday, call net friend for fun " run younger brother while being naked " 4 year old baby many,it is last one of auditors not to come into Nanjing primary school again. " hawk's father " Seem to make up one's mind, it causes a will and intelligence super - normal " infant genius " in pairs to make the child .
Yesterday, the reporter tossed about in bed to find this pair of father and son. In the dialogue with reporter, it is as lively and active like an ordinary child 4 years old to be many much, making yes play with, it it depends on the cartoons to toss about, and father He Lie wins, " takes the course of its own " to oneself Education way initiate various dispute calm and right.
Dispute on one of the cores:
Resist and freeze training, is it really necessary?
" hawk's father " : The result is really very good
The first response of the video is that many people finish seeing - -Does not this damage children by frost? Also someone guesses, it may be a method which treat the early newborn baby's inborn brain paralysis to run nakedly etc. in the snowfield, " hawk's father " Do it in this way, may give directions out of doctor, cannot help but son anxious.
"Doctor does not instruct me and do it in this way, it is the plan that myself make after consulting much medical literatures. " Yesterday, " hawk's father " Tell staff reporter whether " I leave 7 Mr.'s experience, professional knowledge that the normal colleges and schools graduate on oneself, combine the social work of managing enterprises in several decades, has made a series of training planning chart directed against son's situation, fill with and think deeply. " He says, the result is really very good, are originally diagnosed as " possible brain paralysis " by the hospital Newborn baby early more been many nowadays " The body is very healthy " .
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The Chinese child freezes very little, but not too much
"The present child is too delicate and weak, freeze very little. " " winter swimming legend " Miao ZhiQing, it is an ordinary secretary of the marine university security dept. of Dalian, but far-famed on the winter swimming circle. In " large world Guiness Records complete works " There is Lao Miao in China " Swim in 2.8 water temperatures for 65 minutes and 35 seconds " Record. "The child resists and freezes more than the adult, it benefits also health to freeze. " Miao ZhiQing says, " it is certainly strong after growing up to resist the frozen child. "
"To tell the truth, I agree in letting children clicked the frozen one as a child very much. " The citizens of Yangpu district Mr. Huangs say too that live. "There are a pair of Japanese married couple in the Residential Area of our home, have two children, have often seen the child runs outside in the shorts too in large winter during these years, tanned, and the Chinese child sees different, very healthy, let me especially envy. " See Japanese child is healthy and lively, Mr. Huang has germinated the idea of the daughter 6 years old of doing exercises too, "two these child and I similar in age in daughter, I think they may, let daughter try what be good? " Though the daughter's grandparents certainly oppose, some time when Mr. Huang went on a tour while the old man, persuade the wife, let daughters add to their ranks, " the daughter has been swimming all the time, but can not stand either at first too coldly, I get dressed and warm up bringing her first, take off slowly, the daughter is used to it in several days, very happy. "
But soon, grandparents' return, has let Mr. Huang receive very large pressure, have been forced to finish this section of experiments.
It is appropriate to pay attention to, can't violate natural law
"Resist and freeze and train certain advantage, but the snowfield is naked runs, really a bit extreme. " Doctor of Shanghai pediatrics hospital Child Healthcare Dept. Xu Xiu says.
"The growth development of children's organism immunity, need the appropriate stimulus of the surrounding environment. Always speak, unclean, eating has no disease; Think child fit, three fen is hungry and cold, is all this reason. " Doctor Xu tells reporters, " natural and accepting some small stimuli appropriately that we recommend letting the child come into more, can strengthen resistance. "
Freezing training in resisting, doctor Xu thinks, " should have degree to freeze to resist cold-resistantly too, it needs to follow in order and advance step by step even more to do exercises. Training similarly, we should put in the long run in the great environment. For example unable to see child to be naked to run only, know child begin, do exercises soon after not borning actually, it has more than half an hour to warm up too before running, it means father is preparative that naked. If certainly, are frozen or protected excessively improperly, will cause influence on the human joint. The health is a lifetime concept, there should be equilibrium while doing exercises and keeping in good health, can't violate natural law. "
Miao ZhiQing thinks too, " to resist and freeze training but also exquisite and appropriate, vary with each individual. " Miao ZhiQing says, it is innate to resist and freeze ability like being his own, can have when training. "The person to that the congenital condition of the health is general, excessive winter swimming, or is frozen excessively, perhaps there is irreversible injury. "
Dispute on the second of core:
" hawk type " Educate whether do exercises or torment
" hawk's father " : Help him, love a way of his further
In countries such as Japan, South Korea, Australia,etc., there is " resist and freeze training " specially to children ,Improve children's willpower. " hawk's father " Do it in this way, whether draw lessons from some foreign educational ideas?
"Not only draw lessons from, I but also surmount them. " " hawk's father " Say these kind " hawk type limit is educated " ,Just the same as the eagle trains the little hawk, hold in the mouth it to the cliff, peck it with the mouth, even swat it with wings, in order to let it go to look for food alone, soar in the sky. He believes, this kind of education way can stimulate the child's latent energy, it is to help him, love a way of his further.
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Want " its bitter will, toil flesh and bone "
"' hawk's father ' is a good father. " " wolf's father " Xiao BaiYou says.
" wolf's father " Xiao BaiYou's sum " Hawk's father " There are common characteristics: Strict with child. To " hawk's father " Method,last attitude BaiYou Xiao basically.
Xiao BaiYou thinks, receiving higher education, the teacher " hawk's father " It is impossible " Get children down blindly " . In his view, " hawk's father " Way getting earlier to curing some of newborn baby have disease function of having replacably more inborn. Really, at least seen from at present, children have many and still healthy much, resistance is very strong, intelligence is very good too in development.
But this kind of cultivation way, will sacrifice children and kindred among the parents? "I disagree. " Xiao BaiYou says, " the child will form the firm personality after growing up, inborn disease may heal too, he will harbour feeling grateful to the strict father at that time. "
Desolate one hundred is helping seeming, " hawk's father " Make many Chinese parents surprised, in fact reflect that most parents have no direction to teach early in the child. "China and the west, it is different even and has many with Japan, South Korea in the educational idea traditionally, although some young parents are influenced, completely, do not understand the traditional idea, then can only go according to feeling. " Xiao BaiYou says, there is China's traditional education " its will that bitter, toils flesh and bone " . " hawk's father " Child because early for newborn baby,on acceptable intensity, be accepted whether tempered more than children normal, become strong, healthy, it is very rational.
" hawk's father " Do not " understand children "
The reporter thought, Zhu JunHui supported " hawk's father " Method,he is to be fine long in garden in children kindergarten, kindergarten that be come from first old-type opera school of Shanghai too the gardens men is long, been paying attention to in teaching all the time " With manhood " ,Teach " the little child, man of Shanghai, understand responsibility and stand " .
"' hawk's father ''s educational idea is desirable, but educational way has some ' extremes '. " Zhu Jun says, in fact may adopt similar science, " bears hardships and educates " that relaxes further further ,For example wipe the child's foot once with more than ten degrees of cold water every night, there are many points on the foot, it is healthy to stimulate with the cold water.
Ladies and gentlemen will go on too " willpower is trained " in one's own teaching of kindergarten . What he adopted is " Play games " Way,make by child appropriate setback at game,learn to stand, be understood by responsibility. "And willpower not merely means physiological terminal endurance and includes psychological standing degree and sense of responsibility to the thing, can't temper for training simply. " Zhu Jun says.
Another detail, let ladies and gentlemen think " hawk's father " Do not " understand children " --Many to run nakedly in the snowfield and shout " dad, embrace me " more ,But father has not shown interest in, " the child in this period is setting up the stage of sense of safety yet, excessively tempering to its willpower and physiological endurance, the psychology that will possibly ignore the child belongs to the demand, and to the demand loved. " Zhu Jun says, he objects to letting the child 4 years old audit first grade primary school course at the same time. "Even read more, the IQ is high, should not violate child's psychological maturity law either. " Zhu Jun says, Chinese parents should really change the idea, let the child bear hardships more, but the key will be explained " Degree " ,Run nakedly on some in the snowfield " [] " (used after a verb to indicate the completion of an action).
Dispute on the third of core:
Only in order to propagandize and sell the book?
" hawk's father " : Want, propagandize, must make in order to being more clearly video
" hawk's father " Claim, many to test the intersection of organization and test through one IQ more, IQ latent energy up to 218, far exceed the ordinary person, even Einstein, Da Vinci, Huo Jin are far lagged behind. Is this possible?
The careful net friend has searched out quickly " Hawk's father " The book that will be published soon is " busy with father's lazy father's child-bearing heart's passing ", think " it is very great to propagandize the suspicion " in this .
"I strike this section of videos, just for being interesting, if want to propagandize, must strike well more clearly even more. " " hawk's father " As to this deny firmly.
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Have not met such tall person of IQ yet
"Looking at present at least, we have not met such tall person of IQ yet, it sounds a bit unlikely. " The behavioral pediatrics director Zhang YiWen of the development of medical center of the children in Shanghai says, " but have different methods to examine the IQ, test original intention and way of medical mechanism and commercial undertaking may be different, score, IQ that obtain will differ, how largely it is hard to say will certainly be the super gifted child. "
Doctor Zhang does not propose present parents' fine long hair tests child's IQ purposelessly, "generally speaking, when the child's behavior demonstrates that does not correspond to existing age, will utilize IQ to test, explain the child's behavior, offer suggestions to consult for the education of family's school, make the development plan which accords with child's situation, generally more in order to sift the checking or diagnosing, don't examine simply in order to examine the IQ. "
However, to " hawk's father " Through train, do exercises while being a series of, it lets to be originally possible the intersection of child and physical the intersection of IQ and developing method of brain paralysis, doctor Zhang affirms, " judge at first child's brain paralysis is only the possibility, it is very lucky to look after the child now, damage at least not big, otherwise can not be as healthy and lively like today. Parents' education way, method, can really guide the child's development, promote the intelligence development of physical stamina. " In the view of doctor Zhang, " some parents smell child's possible brain paralysis and give oneself up as hopeless for the first time, ' hawk's father ' is not passive, deserve definitely. "
This is revitalizing the nationality, changing the national major issue
" hawk's father " One person good friend be said whether " should if you can't travel, drive to widely kinds of education way and idea " ," this revitalizes the nationality, changes the national major issue " ,Then, what many naked videos that ran of snowfield while travelling in New York does he pass to the network.
To oneself nowadays the child-bearing method of the dispute, " hawk's father " Also very proud.
The reporter asks him: Will worry, will grow up more to hate you too? " hawk's father " Positive to answer, say " loud to love the idea " of him : "Give to children delicious, easy to wear, expect to the child, hope he is filial, high-minded after growing up to some extent, this one kind ' small to love ', a bit selfish. Education of me one kind ' loud to love ', it is for improving his future social competitiveness, train talents for the society. "
Propagandize, about " hawk's father " Report much,investigate reporter, be seemed, " unnecessary to be scalp " just as what he have said . " hawk's father " Real name He LieSheng, it is a neither big nor small celebrity in Nanjing. Since 2008, He LieSheng successively got " model worker of Nanjing " , " good citizens in Nanjing " , " Chinese good person " Waiting for title, Wen's Sichuan earthquake, at the time of the cajaput earthquake of Qinghai, he had successively already contributing money exceeded ten million yuan, been offering, condoling to poor university student, retired teacher all the time for many years To the name Yu Li, he will not seem to need yet.
The snowfield of baby 4 years old is naked the education dispute that initiates runs
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