Unable to do what one wishes Question that 74.1

Unable to do what one wishes Question that 74.1 young man anxious parents support parents
Staff reporter Han Mei

With increasingly a lot of " After 80 " Begin to marry and give birth to babies, their parents have entered the old age too. How to " raise four two times " (namely two only-children support four old men) Realistic problem,it is here in pendulum already in front of young people.

Recently, China Youth Newspaper Office transfers the centre and passes will of the people Chinese network and one hundred interdynamic scientific networks, to 1612 people (the only-child accounts for 40.1% among them) An investigation discovery carried on, 58.3% of the people choose to let parents live in the same Residential Area or adjacent place, look after nearby; 43.5% of the people would like to live with parents, look after in person; 24.8% of the people say parents live in strange land, go to look about regularly; 7% of the people choose to be allocated the life instructor by the community, look after the old man regularly; Only 6.9% of the people would like to send parents to organizations such as the old people's home,etc..

In interviewees, " after 80 " Accounts for 57.3%, " after 70 " Accounts for 28.1%; The married one accounts for 53.4%, the unmarried one accounts for 46.2%.

" after 80 " What difficulties are there in supporting one's parents

Liu Hong that one property firm worked, is renting house to live in with boyfriend in Beijing. "Parents have not retired yet now, the health is good too. Unless we will have children who will need to look after in the future, they are not very willing to come over. "

The health problem of the parents of both sides is that Liu Hong worries about most. "Parents are older, what if catching a serious disease? Siblings looked after in turn in the past, would work and earn money on two couple now. I think the country should improve the pension system, the medical insurance can be circulated in the strange land, otherwise see the fixed hospital that a disease also wanted and returned to homeland, how is the old man able to stand tossing about? "

" after 80 " The difficulty what are there on supporting one's parents that the only-child is here? Investigation reveal 74.1% people say life work high pressure, look after parents to be unable to do what one wishes; 68.4% of the people determine to bear the pension load of many old men; 50.1% of the people express and live in two places, it is unable to put parents through to and look after at one's side; 42% of the people say the social security, medical insurance are not unable to interflow with the city; 37.7% of the people say social pension organizations such as the old people's home,etc. are unable to let people rest assured.

Population and research and development centre Professor Yao Yuan of the People's University of China point out, in supporting parents, nowadays the urgent resource that lacks care for resources in the society, one is cared for by daily life, help the elderly to sweep the hygiene serving like the housekeeping; Secondly need someone to care for for 24 hours at one's side when the elderly fall ill in a short time and lie in bed; The third is that old person's psychology, spirit of the emotion needs, for example lead the old man to go out for a walk, contact the society.

Hope the developer can design the type of house inhabited with parents

Liu Hong thinks, nowadays the room rate of Beijing is so high, is a question too how to live after parents come over. "Let's buy a house respectively, can not afford. Put parents of both sides through to together and cross, not very realistic either. " Liu Hong feels it is the best that it is looked after that parents connect, hope the real estate developer can design the type of house inhabited with parents, the one that live in together can also guarantee their own personal secrets while.

Yao Yuan points out, the society especially lacks a kind of comprehensive service at present, similar to children and show filial respect for parents' equally all-weather, all-round treatment. It is an individual event that the at present housekeeping serve, just cook, wash the clothes, wipe the glass, the others are not done. The present one supports parents at home the service, community care for, should all develop in the direction of integrated service.

This investigation finds, only 6.9% of the people would like to send parents to organizations such as the old people's home,etc..

Yao Yuan points out, the elderly are unwilling to go to the old people's home now, mainly has two reasons, first, the prices of the service, proposition offered in old people's home, it was the elderly that unsatisfied; Second, from Chinese culture, entering the old man of old people's home has abandoned feelings. So there are children's old men in some family, will come back after for some timing, still hope to live inside one's own living environment.

Professor Yao Yuan has carried on the investigation in the Residential Area that has lived oneself. Have many nonlocal young people in the Residential Area, take parents over after being successful. "An old person says: ' we felt and children were very near when being in the other places originally. Move to this Residential Area now, live with children near, but think and they are a good distance away. ' in fact children return to homeland each time, will have endless words to talk with parents, parents reach by children now, have nothing to say instead, because children have their life style, value orientation. A lot of parents coming from other places to Beijing, the life style of incorporating children, I'm afraid that will pass very long time.

In the investigation, 76.0% of the people expect social security such as the medical insurance realize the intercommunication of different cities; 51.0% of the people hope it suit the type of house of house that the old man lives with children together that the developer design more; 40.6% of the people think the hospital should increase the speciality and is partial to worker's quantity.

Unable to do what one wishes Question that 74.1 young man anxious parents support parents