The whole world enters single era It is the

The whole world enters single era It is the more convenient to live Seem to cross the complicatedness in marriage
This newspaper stays in Germany, Japan, American old first girl of British special correspondent Teri Aoki Li Staff reporter Lee Xu's swallow

It is the lowest that the number of people getting married of Britain has already fallen until the past 150 years; U.S.A. " single culture " Had already entered mature period in the 1990s of last century; Every three families in France, one is single; The single population in Berlin of Germany is up to 54%; Years old young man is unmarried rate is 47.1% in Japan 30- 34, the young woman is 32%; South Korea claims to enter formally " Single flourishing era " ; In China, " our only love, does not get married " Slogan 80 descendant group in growing " the increasingly many person has lost interest of marriage " ,Federal expert of people research institute You Gen in Germany? Dr. Breetz pointed out when being interviewed by " life Times " reporter a few days ago. As a tie which maintains the society, " marriage " Problem really what be taken place,it is be in the world to let fear what she avoid so many people as?

Single =Freedom, specially standing and walking and succeeding alone

"Freedom, it is all right to specially stand alone, succeed! How graceful the single noble is! " This is a television advertising language of a famous product in Germany. Until population Germany is federal is that research institute announce on April statistical data,(at connect by first) The whole Germany's single number has already risen to 39.5%, Berlin is up to 54%. You Gen? Dr. Breetz tells reporters, some German young people made " oath " long ago : Young women and 40% of the young men of 1/3 say that will not get married; The intersection of German and philtrum that divorce, have, 70% express, will get married too, keep the intersection of marriage and married couple of state blow " the life of living apart " while being prevailing still : Live respectively while working, reunite only on weekend. Some couple demarcate the wife, husband's private space in the same apartment.

The marriage figures of statistics of last year of British government, it was this country in a minimum year since 1862. Prediction of this year number of people getting married either very optimistic, it is said " single family " Be up to 40%. In Japan, the data of the national national conditions investigation bureau reveal, the unmarried rate of the young man 25- 29 years old is up to 71.4%, the young woman is 59%. This is only unmarried rate, resume the single person after if count as and divorcing, the figure is higher.

Pay attention to China of marriage even more, people see, spoil twenty 8 nine -year-old " leave man " too nowadays , " surplus woman " . Parents are not anything new at all the past twenty five or six years old, but now, such an image " rare animal " Let people envy equally. According to national authoritative statistic, as early as 4 years ago, Shanghai rose to 31.1 years old at male age of first marriage, women rise to 28.4 years old. From 1992 to 2005, the intersection of China and population rise at full speed, but people to go to Department of Civil Affairs to register marriage 3,500,000 little, even marry at a mature age " No the wedding " Become the general phenomenon.

As said just like that advertisement in Germany, what some unmarried persons pursued is graceful. The 36 -year-old good son is the typical representatives of the single women in Japan: Well paid, busy, rent the advanced apartment alone, have a meal with the friend after coming off duty, parents shout and blindly date and hide from again and again, earn few men she can not take a fancy to, the man that earns much will not look for her either, mostly go to look for the girl over 20 years old. Almost 30 -year-old Chinese Miss Zou and imagine the life after marriage as: Come home from work and cook, watch TV, then sleep, go back to mother-in-law's home on New Year's Day and other festivals, want the child, slave's life of passing by the endless child from then on in one or two years after marriage, do not find that has not lived carefully for oneself until. "Happy with the relation and big of getting married. Wait for me to be old, raise a dog, let my brother's child become a heir to property. I have one's own work, hobby and friend-making to enclose, this is happy. " She tells reporters.

It is the more conveniently to live, the marriage is the more complicated that seem

The people getting married all have a common reason, that is: They are in love. Though the person not getting married eaches have reasons, the investigations of the global different countries find a common phenomenon, that is a the taller person of the the higher, income of the education, the more incline not to get married, it is obvious that there are very great relations with economic development to form and form. Japanese expert points out, to many young people, the love means the simple sexual desire, the marriage means complicated life. The modern interpersonal relationships are without worldly desires, the more abundant amateurish life such as the network, mobile phone, video game are, by contrast, need, compromise, stand and marriage of cooperation right away the more troublesome seem. So, Japanese scholar thinks, convenience store and adult DVD are two major reasons why people do not get married. Convenience store: Take and drink towel toothbrush of underwear in 24 hours; Adult DVD, countless spaces are for men to do the pornography to imagine. In this case, two major contents of getting married: Sexual love and daily life can all solve lightly independently, why still cost the strength to date, please the target to get married?

In addition, the global divorce rate is rising constantly, the lonely family of old age is getting more and more, also let many people not think the meaning of marriage is big. Quite a few of Englishmen think, do not need to use " marriage certificate " between men and women It proves or restrains each other that this paper comes. In Germany, it is considered to be " guarding " to get married , " stiff" Pronoun. There is one that break in every three marriages of Germany, this lets many people begin to fear the marriage.

To single crowd who China grows stronger day by day, have it with the same reason in the world, also there are one's own unique getting married reasons, the psychological referral centre of red Chinese sweet gum of Beijing supervises and guides the psychological referral centre of green bamboo of Xie Hua and Shanghai and specially engages the marriage expert Zhang JingHong to summarize for the following two points: " regard oneself as the centre " : 80 post only-child generation has too strong ego consciousness, only see the devotion of the marriage, see and can not reap, so feel that it is not worthwhile to get married. Moreover, they lacked people skills while as a child, the fear should bear too many things after growing up. As a sign growing to manhood, the marriage is resisted by them naturally. " it is too harsh to select " : But life that independent economic ability lets most women no longer depend on the man, so will be more harsh to conditions such as the appearance, disposition,etc. while selecting the companion.

It is equal to the love not to get married, even does not give birth to the child. Modern society to pre-marital cohabitation, give birth to son to be more and more tolerant, the intersection of singleton and increasingly many reason one of too. Japanese women have a slogan: " want the child, does not need the man " . The independent mother not only will not be discriminated against, can also get the subsidy of the government. Though China can not make this, each life of people, does not interfere each other, know either more each other between the neighbourhood, company leader will marry, right away allow you to promote, this has reduced the pressure that people do not get married.

Initiate a lot of social concerns singly

Compared with person not getting married marriage, which one is happier? This is probably the thing not speaking clearly forever. "Have time, I will feel very lonely, the fear on that deep in the future. " Miss Zou tells reporters, single life is actually not graceful forever. Moreover, will bring many social concerns if not getting married. The department in environment protecting mode of Germany thinks, it is a kind of wasting phenomenon to be single. The statistical data reveal: One ordinary one kinsfolks of three member family probably make 1000 kilograms of rubbish every year while being average, and rubbish which those singletons disposed of in one year is had another more they by more than 600 kilograms. In addition, 5 ruffians burnt 61% natural gas more in one year than the five member family, consumed 55% electricity more and bought 39% of the daily necessities more. The health organization points out too, the singleton is unhealthy, persons who suffer from the chronic disease have another more 30% more than person getting married in them. The German sociologist still warns, single will bring the unstability of the society, because it is easier and excitedder for the singleton. Germany is the lowest country of fertility rate in the world at present, the expert predicts, if the single person continues increasing, the old person does not have people who care for, 12 generations, Germany may disappear from the earth.

"One of the most basic points of getting married, always come and have a companion. Someone tells me, the companion of the old age looks for again on the old age, but my view is, the real companion is the break-in in decades, trained out. " Hua Xie say, in view of psychology, it divorces to be except that relative pass away most loud blow. Even if you choose not to get married, cohabit, should pay emotion and time like living in the marriage too, and because there is not legal assurance, there is not any compensation after departure, such a relation will be extremely painful to women. "If does not really plan to get married, will make good preparations for very sufficient psychology soon, namely I at any time can leave, I any other things may be minded. If can not do, choose the wedding easily. " Zhang JingHong shows, got married and offered to people, it is a kind of sense of ownership. In Maslow's demand theory, most basically survives, and then it is ownership and sense of safety, if does not want to get married alone, seem to be saying I do not need the demands of the sense of ownership and love. A person without sense of ownership, how can really have happiness?
The whole world enters single era It is the more convenient to live Seem to cross the complicatedness in marriage